**Real friends don’t have to speak to or see each other daily to remain in each other’s heart always**
Well said …right !!!
We all have bunch of friends …. school friends, college friends, childhood friends, neighborhood friends, family friends and on n on…!! The balance is established…. which is just amazing despite of even if you haven’t met for la long span of time .
Still there come moments in which the equilibrium is lost.......
Today, I will mention few points which I think and experienced ,one look for in friends :-
1) First of all :- making friends is the most random thing. For example :- You met one person who is irritating every one around in your class and your *rationalized mind* is like- what the hell ! Who the hell ! And frankly, It won’t be a surprise if within a month you are going hunky-dory with the same person ![beautiful memories, eh !]
2) Friends are ones who give your own space and respect it !!! For example :- if you are friends with someone whom your best friend is enemy with…it shouldn’t affect them. We all strike different chord with every individual , right ? Although, being aware of the situation should be a good friend gesture from your side.
3) Friends should be non-bossy and not at all enforcing !!! Its a BIGGGG thing. With such people you can never ever grow as an individual ! Being impulsive is a whole together different thing ! Its being edgy but being bossy means throwing you down that edge with kindness !
4) A-tension seekers :- their are friends who like to be in limelight by creating havoc ! For example :- their is an exam coming…they will be all over going how to do….its difficult….its shit…oh my god …..raising your pulse and definitely stressing you.Point to be noted is this scenario doesn’t bother them at all !
5) You come across a friend who are all sisterly-brotherly and actually kinda soul-sisters/brothers. You think alike…wow… you talk alike….double wow…..what about your actions…ahemm…mmmmm…
If you react same that’s awesome…you plan up things…..but where is the action ????? [quite a specific-kind yet... true !]
End is…
**Friends can help each other.A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is.**
Still all are friends and all are beautiful in some way……
Rise and shine !