Today, I am going to share with you all about mistakes, that we do and the blunders, that are done by others.
Isn't our mind beautifully clever. It smoothly and without any second thought categorises :-
When mistake is done by someone else and it isn't hampering us:- we go very rationally. Equally weighing the right and wrong, pros and cons and may deduce the judgment which doesn't matter to us at all. It is the philosophical us passing the judgment !!!!
When the mistake is committed by someone and it is affecting us directly or indirectly :- what the F_CK !!!.... How dare .........., heights of ignorance, height of carelessness, nobody can be trusted, and today's generation n on !!!
When the MISTAKE or precisely the blame for the mistake is on our shoulders, we show tantrums like people don't understand my situation, its different to be in my shoes, you don't understand me, you don't know what I am going through, on n on n little longer.....
Moral -
Nobody commits mistake deliberately, nobody likes to shout, nobody likes to mess up things up. (If it is deliberate, then its not a mistake. It's an act)
Treat (at least try) every one equal, including yourself. It makes your mind work more rational. Last but not the least, give everyone a chance (at least 3)[5 in case you are super patient ]. We actually don't know what is going in other person's life
If the mistake is committed thrice then
It's an *ACT* time and time for you to *RESPOND*. React but not respond[Refer to my blog On The Way With Analogs #011 for more on react and respond]
Lets make this world a better and happier place and it starts with us