Hello all ! Liked the rhyme above. An immature one but you know sometimes I just get in the flow LOL ! Did you like it? Do tell ! Sounds scary, MAY BE but now I will give you the exact perception behind these lines..... So, skip a beat and read on .....
You are with some near and/or dear one [its not necessary near one is dear one and vice versa] . May be family, someone special or official peer. And the arguments starts. It simply takes speck of time to react. And in no time it turns into a turbulent. Its a fact. It happens. Everything becomes naive. The breathing fast and calmness shatters down. And all the past memories, present adjustments, future tensions , bad to worst experiences are loathed upon each other. And also, the number of people involved is, directly involved to the complications one has to experience.
So, in such situation what strategy can be best adopted ?
There are many. Most of them are spontaneous. Sometimes, you feel a sudden anger - you blast and then peace. Other way, you avoid the topic and settle down. In other ways let it be WAAAR !!!! And, yes don't forget those sorry like the favor of the millennium in which we tend to show the sacrifice. Lol. No, its serious. Lol
Anyway, the best according to me - SILENCE IS THE BEST ALTERNATIVE ! Have water. Seriously, have few sips, sit and focus on your breath. Slow it down. The person in front might be shouting and performing anger dance. Just say sorry. And, leave silently. Go , to room or go for a short walk. Calm your mood , ask yourself - is it worth it. Think at least try bringing good memories of today or yesterday. Just opt for silence.
Add on - silence not for eternity but for the time everything settles. Then you all can have a discussion. Give your point. Understand other's . And, most importantly listen and remain silent. Now, you can again read the initial lines and say - oh yeah ! The scariness got converted to a sweet smile ! Nice. [hope it happened so]
So, possess this silence which because it will lead to the best within you, your near n dear ones and obviously the environment.
We all know, speech is silver but silence is GOLD.
So, take control, let Gold flow through you. Have an awesome blossom day.
And yes, shhhhhhhh !!!!