Hello guys. Hope you had a wonderful week. So, what it was, hectic? What you were up to? but what it should matter is : was it worth it! Now, here comes the weekend, replenish yourself., rejuvenate and re-vibe to best in you, for you and yes by you !
As the week is passing. I want to share some of the thoughts which I think are essential for all of us. Literally, whole of the world to take it as a food for thought !
First of all the title. "not to||ought to". Well, I don't know why I chose this as the heading but there was a strong hunch to let it be.Ought is used to tell a situation which is not demanding (as in the case when we use 'must') but commands ! To be more precise need or relevant or condition
So, not to shows the "no" side of a thing and "ought" on the other side shows the relevance with respect to situation but not "yes" !
Moving on with the grammatical description (a MUST though , LOL). And, yeah hope you found it satisfactory too ! Feel free to leave a comment .
Coming back to the point which I wish to convey is :
"we promise according to our hopes and perform according to our fears"
Lets take an example :
As a student, we all used to be like "I will become an engineer, designer, and many more options that prevail to us " This shows the promise we make while hoping !!! And when the performance time comes, exams in case of students *to be precise* LOL ! How do we study ? We study, not to fail or not to get zero or not get an 'F'
Did we ever study like, I will study to get marks which will help me in reaching closer to what I hope to become !
It has happened with all of us. Trust me take your pendulum for a memory walk !!!
Curiosity quotient - why ? why exactly did we do so ! It was the sub conscious which had been programmed ever and ever like :
Teacher saying in class : do come prepared for the next exam otherwise YOU WILL FAIL (nobody said prepare to get marks) . Secondly, conditioned pressure. There are a many situations which demanded a person to study. If he/she will study, will get good job hence good pay and the money ! Ask, yourself - do you think a person can study keeping money in mind. If the sole reason was to earn money, you can earn anytime (you have to have a mind for though) You all would have heard of lot of people from various walks of life around you who with there hard work achieved heights and money without having a degree. I am not saying that one should not study but conveying the concept of study. Study is to gain knowledge, to get wisdom. To be more systematic. To appreciate what has happened and achieved by the world, country and as a human ! And also, to devote time ! Learn time management handle problems, enjoy , grow and become an achiever .
May be it is easy to build fear ! By fear only, a person will be able to reach farther ! But, what we don't realize is how this fear itself lead us to not be ALIVE !!!
One more point I would like to add is : being strict is a different push ! It is required too and it is different from being reason to be fearful !
And such situations are not applicable just to students but in every aspects of our lives ranging from fear of losing a relation to a job !
When, you start working keeping the achievements it is going to bring in your life then see ! The magic which will flow outwards to reality poring all essence of "LIFE"
So, guys next time you hope and make promise to yourself always always make sure to perform keeping it in the heart. Don't let fear engulf you. And if it does, just say,why I should fear. I will do what OUGHT is required so that I can achieve what I hope for . Scratch out all fears and fill your heart with the trust that you will achieve !
What else do you think affects our performance and make us fearful. Please leave your suggestions in comments !
Have an amazing weekend ahead !
Rise and shine