Rest In Peace ... R.I.P. is actually among those phrases which we all must have (majority) used and favorably typed !
We wished it even though it mattered or not !
Death even being the unknown mystery yest is inevitable and its never ever wrong to wish person to be at peace after it even if that person dies trying to find this same content and expression his entire life !
I am not blaming you or myself or anyone ! But, isn't it true that we spend LIFETIME to just get own "PIECE OF PEACE" (you can check yours too !).
And do we really wish them Rest with Peace during that time !!!!! Nah ! Not really ! I am not saying that we wanted chaos in there life but the concern can very well be distinguished between RIP & RWP !
Curiosity Quotient : Okay ! Got it ! Rest WITH Peace is better in every sense than Rest IN Peace . Now what ! The dead is already gone, the living are chaos. Its actually me only who needs to be at Peace ! Its 'I' who needs Peace !
Straight from the heart and true too !!!! But but but, we can bring the change !!!! How ? With simply these things which if on keeping in mind will give you, me and all of us loads of peace and we can actually Rest with Peace !!!!
A] Nurture your Talent : I don't know if all will think this as worthy of the first point but I feel this is among the things which we leave after putting it as not priority till it reaches last in the priority list before getting removed from the very same !
Talent is something which just flows naturally from you ! May be Dance, Singing, Craft, any Sports, puppetry, dramatics, writing. sewing, cooking, just anything ! That thing which re-fills you with energy even if you have been tired all day ! That experience which makes people appreciate you seems to you like click of fingers. The time for which your soul craves for. Soul wishes for which you simply left around the corner on the journey of life. Extract it ! Take it back ! Fill life in your life ! Try and you will actually feel the peace ! Because it was longing of the soul !
Talent is something which just flows naturally from you ! May be Dance, Singing, Craft, any Sports, puppetry, dramatics, writing. sewing, cooking, just anything ! That thing which re-fills you with energy even if you have been tired all day ! That experience which makes people appreciate you seems to you like click of fingers. The time for which your soul craves for. Soul wishes for which you simply left around the corner on the journey of life. Extract it ! Take it back ! Fill life in your life ! Try and you will actually feel the peace ! Because it was longing of the soul !
B] Culture your knowledge : Work is important ! It is 'rightly' said that - Idle mind is devil's workshop ! Always keep on channelizing your energy into some work. More you become idle more you get trapped with negativity, health problems etc. And, in return you gain knowledge or experience or better options. And, all of this starts with the concept of school only ! Your homeworks, projects which actually used to make us feel 'wanting to be out of school' actually was to prepare us for the different aspects of life ! What say guys ! WORK !
C] Realize relationships : Its nothing new ! But the way you interact with your fellow beings says a lot about your own character. Human is a social animal and you cannot live as an isolated case forever ! The interaction is there - be parents, family, friends, love of your life and on n on ! I am not saying that you have to please all ! NO ! But, realize every relations. Some might need more from you, some might not ! Some, might require extra efforts some might need you to stay away ! You have to keep balance. Say what you feel. Listen to what others feel ! Try to come over the misunderstandings !
D] "WHY" - Yeah ! Strange it might seem, but actually very logical ! Whatever decision you take or whatever choice you make - ask your self WHY ? And, the surprise is - you will always get answer.
Sometimes, its your mind sometimes your heart ! Chose wisely. Ask yourself, why exactly am I doing so. Am I really interested or is it because someone else lured or is it because I found someone else doing so ! We all tend follow someone's footsteps. No harm in accepting it ! We do ! Some do it to the extent of copying some just as a base to evolve ! But whatsoever you do, analyse its perspective your stand about it and than go for it ! Its never difficult to take time before you make a decision ! Let it not become spontaneous [remember the last time you shouted non stop non-sense]. Yeah, it is applicable there also ! LOL
Anyways, guys. To be true, we can find 'n' number of different views every where like take holiday, plan surprise, go to parlor, pamper yourself. There is nothing wrong them it but if on using point [D] , I find them more of temporary !
So, these are just simply four points which can actually make you 'Rest WITH Peace' before Rest IN Peace !
That's it for today ! Hope you like today's post ! Don't forget to give your valuable comments which are appreciated. Have an awesome blossom day !!!!
Love to all !