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The "UNIMPORTANT" YOU !

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Namaste to all (Indian way of greeting others) ! Just give me 5 minutes ! I just told you that you are unimportant, right !! So, you can give me 5 min. LOL! Anyways, lets start with some questions:

Q1. Do you value yourself?
      "Great".
Q2. Never under estimate yourself.
      "Brilliant".
Q3. Always see yourself ahead.
      "Awesome".
{I am assuming that we all nodded yes; if not - no comments ;p}

But but but, let me tell you an essential ingredient which will complete your life soup ! It will bring new philosophy to your thinking and might take you to on the path of self realization ! Its the secret ingredient. Do you know what it is?

The realization that you are NOT IMPORTANT !!! It sounds funny. But I am serious ! 
Did it hurt your ego !!! I know, it surely did. Lets take an example- I am working day and night in my research lab and then one day I get to realize that I am not that important ! IT HURTS, and it hurts deep inside the heart. But here, what I want to focus upon is - that I am not saying it on a discouraging note. Here I wish to say that even if I am not able to do work, it will be accomplished by someone else !
In other words, realizing own capacity is one thing  and realizing others potential is all together a different game. You never know who can raise above expectations and in which scenario an under dog surprises you  ! I think I hit the right chord now ! Its not always yours brilliance only that counts.  

The best example to demonstrate this would be: India vs Bangladesh T20 world cup. 6 balls, 4 runs left for Bangladesh to capture the match. They underestimated the potential of Indian cricket team and become over confident which was evident in the glamorous shot that they were trying and ended up loosing their wickets. This resulted in all the efforts that they did during the entire match go in vain. If they would have realized the potential of Indian team they might have had made a better shot selection and the result would have been totally different! Anyways, its a game but one can relate to his/her life as well ! Its simply better to realize !
I might say I did lot of work in my dissertation. I worked day and night! But, at the same time it should be clear to me; if I wouldn't have joined that lab, someone else would have done it at my place ! May be more efficiently or more smartly !

Intense but realistic ! I hope you get it !
So, how can we realize so without feeling discouraged and hurt ????

One should realize that opportunity you got can be available to other too ! The post you filled can be filled by others too ! The house you live in, could be inhabited by others too ! You also came as an alternative only ! Right ! The life moves on and will keep on moving either you be there or not !
Its a FACT and PART of LIFE ! Your absence will bring a gap but it will be filled sooner than you realize. 

See, I am not saying that it means that you shouldn't do anything. I am not saying that your presence has no value. You EARN that value ! And for that one part is your behavior, attitude, positivity, gratitude, faith and understanding! And, other is your efforts that counts.

I am even not saying that you cannot make a difference ! You can, in fact you should and make your presence felt, because if it wouldn't have been you, then someone else could have been !

Its simply one of the philosophy of life with which you can understand better and realize your own presence in vast universe ! Do let me know your aspects on this post ?? Do you AGREE ??? Do you think, such will bring difference in the way you think !!!In the end I would to conclude by saying !!!

"Someone's dream is someone's reality"
Have a great day all !!!!




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