ACT I :
YOU : I LOVE YOU
ME : What? Really? Are you serious ?
YOU : Just joking !
ME : Stupid joke !
ACT II
YOU : I HATE YOU
ME : WHY ? What happened !
YOU : Just joking.
ME : It didn't look like. Are you sure na !
Hmmmmm........
Bit complex but did you see !!!!
Both acts displayed rather expressed the emotions.
Which made the impact was - I don't think that need to be told !
ACT I and ACT II portrays a mixture of response and reaction !
But major difference which is -
In case of Love, we tend to doubt. We need conformation I think up to 1000 times. On the other hand. in case of hatred, even if it is told it as a joke, still we tend to feel it is true! Well, I agree these are direct expressions but similar to these we tend to come across daily - like I love your dress, your work, your gesture which we tend to negotiate like "Thanks" but its natural - down to earth gesture !!!!
On the other hand, even if you are tip - top head to toe, still someone just says 'I don't think your shoes are gelling well with the dress', even when you might be all engrossed in work, but that comment will keep on hitting your brain and keep on echoing in your head !
We all experience, fall as a victim, get appreciated and express Love and Hate all day long. I hope there is no hint of doubt !
What we can start with is, personnel recommendation as a step to overcome one's own feeling to get hatred and let the love flow
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Lets take an example - Few months back, I was travelling in metro. I was standing at a particular position near a seat. A girl was sitting in front of me . Seeing her body gestures she was giving very negative vibes. The way she was looking at other people, making faces. I disliked her this behaviour. At one station, an elderly woman entered and without even asking, that girl swiftly got up, offered seat to the old woman with a smile on her face. That gesture, totally flipped my viewpoint about her. Though, after that I stared with - don't look at people expression on my face. You won't get any thoughts. But, the fact is till when. You see people. Observe them. But what we can change is, to observe the positive point. Simple we should continue to observe the positivity around us, as it will not only inspire us and leave an positive mark on our mind, but will also help the society to prosper.
Please do share your thoughts about the blog and also tell any incident like this that you face, would love to read from you. NAMASTE
Please do share your thoughts about the blog and also tell any incident like this that you face, would love to read from you. NAMASTE