Hello to all ! This is "On The Way With Analogs" 101th POST ! And it feels simply wow !
"WHY ?"
"Obviously because it completed with 100 posts. A CENTURY ! A milestone !"
"So, what's with 100 !"
"Ummm, it is easy to remember !!!!"
"Is 93 difficult to remember? Or 76 0r 49 ???"
"Its
generally enjoyed in all walks of life !"
Hmmm.... Did something click. 'click-click' NOW ! CLICK_CLICK ! LOL !
I know it did. So, generally speaking, we generalize. That too A LOT !
Seriously a lot ! There is nothing wrong in it ! But, if we ask ourselves....why and how...it will actually bring a new horizon. And, who knows it opens new blockages in our mind and heart.
Let us take an example -
Do you get scared with the dog whenever you cross them ! Ask yourself why ! There are people who don't like dogs. Its fine. But not liking and fearing are two different things. Ask to self ! Why do you fear them ! Suppose, you once had a very bad fight with one person and you scared that person to heights. Seeing this, all start fearing you up. Won't you just say - it was only once. Or lets say, a teacher punished you bad. Did you start fearing all the teachers throughout your life. NO. Then why with dogs !
Lets take another example - you loved that girl. But, over time she leaves you. Can you generalize that all girls are same. If you do, ask yourself - WHY ?
EXCEPTIONS ARE GENERALLY ALWAYS THERE !
Lets take it more personally, do you cherish all the things you used to love 20 or 30 years back. You might love them because they bring breeze of sweet memories. But, you might not cherish ! So, how can we generalize literally everything.
We can't and we shouldn't.
If you flunk in Maths you can't say you are bad in MATHS. If once you were laughed upon while dance doesn't meant you can't dance. I used to feel similar when I used to sing. People used to be smiling or flashing that little edgy on the face (the mischievous once). I literally used to stop there and then and always concluded - 'I can't sing'.
But, with time - the mind bell rang- and I realized - I simply generalized myself that I can't sing ! I might sing bad. I might not be perfect in notes but that SIMPLY NOT mean I cannot sing.
So, here I am. I sing. Maybe less. But yes I do and not at all with the notion of I can't.
So, guys just stop generalizing. Be it people, work or nature or simply yourself - everything will respond in accordance to the act every time in other manner !
You meet a guy other day - don't say he will exploit you. Know him. Analyse according to yourself and then think. Experience each of your moments. Take part in life don't just make it a viewing chamber play through it !
So, are you ready ???? On the count of THREE ! ONE...TWO...AND.....
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Well, don't generalize. You know what is to be done !!!!
Have a great day all !!!! Do you think, something more should be added. Feel free to share your views. Or you think it is not realistic or okay Just type it out. Happy to read all !
Best wishes !!!