Trust plays very very very important role in all of ours life. Be it between friends, relatives, spouse in other words any near n dear ones, for whom we genuinely care for.
One such important factor in our life is money ! Yes, the currency or to be precise your currency. I understand money should not decide one's character and here I am not even saying so. What I wish to say is - money tends to display other person's ingenuity, thoughts and responsibilities.
Let me share one of my incident...
I have a friend. One among my good buddies for whom I care and we share a kind of relation which is both professionally related as well as of friends. In other way you can say, I see this person every day for a good amount of time.I like her. A month back, we all colleagues went for a movie [TE3N - which is a good suspense movie; I liked it] We watched, had a good time and came back. All the payment was done by one of us four. So, obviously we will divide it and pay each of our expense. My rough calculations said it will be around 400 Rs and I gave my share to my friend. I told her to give it in the office as it was my leave day and her's was working. 'Okay' she replied. The day went fine. In evening while chatting she told me, that she gave my share to the one who paid. The exact share was around 285 Rs. Further she added, that she didn't take the 15 Rs. remaining because it was so minimal and its Okay. TO this I replied that she did fine. Cool. Days went on. After around a week I went out on a lunch with the third colleague who paid for the movie. While chatting, the movie day experience popped out. And, while talking she told me that she gave my remaining 15 Rs. share back to my friend that day itself.
And, if you guess it right, I was shocked. It was literally not at all about the change that was remaining. It was about the trust which got diluted. If she would have said nothing, I might not have felt anything. But that extra sentence of her that she didn't take the money hit me hard.
We still spend good time together but now I am more alert and conscious about the money transactions because now it has lead to our relation transactions. Because she sprinkled over her intentions. And, guess what we all friends felt the same for her because we all have had experienced once a while like this.
Because the money transaction actually lead to our relation transaction. I am still a well wisher for her and will always be. But, this hunch lead to a turn.
What we have is our hard earned money. No body likes to waste it [generally speaking]. If we like to value ours same is true for others as well. If you are taking money from friend. Take but give back. If not immediately, tell clearly that it will take time. Be genuine and clear about it. Its nothing nothing nothing wrong in about so. What you say guys ? Did you experience something similar. How you reacted to it ? What you think, one should respond over it. ! Do share your views
Bless you all and have a great week ahead ! Lot of work piled up for me. Will get back to it !
Cheero !!!!!